Memo to Democrats: True friends stand by you in a crisis

Anne Kinzel is a former attorney and Californian now living in central Iowa. Anne speaks three languages: English, French, and Policy, which allows her to take arcane policy concepts and translate them into language that consumers, voters, and policy makers can appreciate and use.

How many consultants has the Democratic establishment hired over the years to help them understand why they aren’t connecting with voters and non-voters? It’s likely more than the $250 million Elon Musk spent to buy the election.

Why don’t the Democrats connect well enough with Americans? It’s all about who has your back and who your true friends are—those who stand by you in a crisis.

I am certain that we are in a serious crisis. Every day, my Washington Democratic acquaintances bombard me with messages and spammy emails declaring that our country, our democracy, all of us are facing an existential crisis brought on by the authoritarian criminal Donald Trump and his twisted accomplice, Elon Musk. The essence of my Dem friends’ messages is this: send money to help us get re-elected, and everything will be fine.

In tough times, you don’t want new friends; you want the ones you know well to be there with you. Can’t you hear your mom saying after that breakup or that move to a new city: “Oh honey, you can find new friends. It will take a little time, but you’ll find a new group that shares your interests, and you’ll be having fun again in no time.”

I admit, Mom was right back then. But this time, the crisis is real! A guy who was never elected is running the country. I don’t have time to join a new group and meet new people in a book club. 

A few months ago, Kamala Harris was eager for my vote to protect you and me from the felon Trump. I wonder where she is now. I know it’s common in America to fade away after losing an election, but isn’t this an existential crisis? Is 2025 really the time to stay the traditional course? I would feel much better about voting for Kamala Harris in 2028 if she believed the times were serious enough to break with tradition.

Barack Obama. Wasn’t that guy a community organizer before he parlayed the presidency into a comfortable retirement? I could really use a friend like him right now in this crisis, and I bet you could too. I did hear from him right before the election, urging me to send money to Kamala Harris and make sure to vote for her so I would be safe from Trump, the potential dictator. Maybe he could also break with tradition and use his renowned skills to kick-start something like an organized resistance to the serious threat posed by the race-baiting Trump and Musk.

Now, Harris and Obama would be volunteers, and I suppose it’s a tall order to expect them to step up for nothing more than being major players in saving the Republic. Yet, we hear daily that our president is intent on making life miserable for everyone outside his circle of grifters, so maybe they could do some part-time volunteering for their old friends, the voters.

What about the always-friendly Joe Biden? I give him a pass. He’s an old guy who had our backs for four years and a long time before that. He’s the kind of friend you know will be there when he can, and I understand that right now, he can’t.

So, what about the folks in Congress? I know they try to stay in touch, even if we’re not besties. I hear from them every day, at least twice—once asking for money and once reminding me about the awful creep in the White House who poses a terrible threat to America.

Then again, the Congressional Dems don’t seem too worried about the big threat posed by the would-be dictator Trump and his talk of a third term. For them, it seems like it’s business as usual in the Senate country club. I know this because they write about possible issues in the future tense while explaining how dangerous the felon Trump will be down the road.

I have heard that some of you have some pretty good friends in the House. That guy who filed the impeachment articles comes to mind. But the word on the street is that many of his Democratic co-workers think he’s out of his mind and not playing by the rules. Imagine that.


Top photo of Elon Musk with Donald Trump was first published on Trump’s campaign Facebook page on November 19.

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  • lessons learned?

    Anne has been very critical of IDP in her various writings, and it will be interesting to see if the party will learn any lessons after Trump’s shellacking of Harris and a clean sweep of Iowa’s four congressional districts(again). The constant name calling didn’t work – Trump is a nazi, fascist, etc.
    I know some Republican friends who consider Biden and Harris to be fascists and nazis as well.

  • Focus on Trump

    Democrats are infamous for turning their fire on one another.

    Let’s stop.

    While admittedly scattershot, current efforts by Democrats to push back on the Trump agenda are making progress only a month in.

    People are showing up at events for GOP elected officials and Trump appointees. They are making some noise. Google Transporation Secretary Sean Duffy’s “welcome” at a recent event in California.

    Trump’s favorability has already fallen to about – 6%. Recently elected presidents typically enjoy positive ratings.

    A report this morning about consumer sentiment regarding confidence in the economy showed a steep decline for the second consecutive month. That’s all under Trump’s watch my friends.

    Pushing back works. It just takes time.

    Trump’s popularity will further erode when people begin to feel the real impact of his careless and thoughtless agenda.

    Swing voters tend to vote against people not for them. That’s why it’s critical to focus on Trump . . . particularly around what will be a failed economic record by the time the 2026 mid-terms come our way.

    I made an error over the past couple years by focusing too much on preserving democracy and freedom.

    That’s important, of course. But swing voters are more concerned about the things that impact their daily lives.

    This is why we need to focus constantly on economic issues and other outcomes where a simple narrative can be presented that Trump has failed to make life better for average Americans.

    Just think for a moment, by 2026 how many voters will have had friends or family members negatively impacted by Trump’s actions? That drumbeat has already begun.

    Focus on Trump. Focus on swing voters. Focus relentlessly.

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