After inadvertently saying something offensive, a decent human being might apologize.
Then there’s Republican State Representative Ralph Watts.
Watts made news at a legislative forum in Adel in early February when he repeatedly referred to his 2016 Democratic challenger Bryce Smith as “red rider,” a derogatory term for a gay man. You can watch the video (beginning around the 1:09:30 mark) or read my transcript of Watts taunting Smith’s husband, Kale Smith. Watts later claimed he didn’t realize the term could be considered a slur, adding that he meant to mock his former opponent by comparing him to a Red Ryder BB gun.
On March 25, Watts attended an Urbandale Chamber of Commerce event, where Karin Derry asked him whether he knew the term “red rider” was a slur when he used it to describe his former opponent. All he needed to say was, “I had no idea. I regret saying it and I won’t do it again.”
But this is “Ralph Worst” we’re talking about. He responded, “No, I didn’t know it was a slur. Anything you say to a gay anymore is a slur. That–there’s no way that’s a gay slur. […] I didn’t know that was a gay slur.”
Here’s the exchange, which “Jefferson1 IndivisibleIowa” uploaded to YouTube:
News flash for Representative Watts: you don’t get to decide what might be offensive to members of a group that has long faced discrimination and homophobia. You’re not the victim here. In any event, none of this would have blown up in your face if you didn’t feel compelled to keep belittling your former opponent.
Daniel Hoffman-Zinnel, executive director of the LGBTQ advocacy organization One Iowa, released this statement today:
This is an unacceptably dismissive and unapologetic response to a valid question about his previous use of a slur. Words have real power to hurt and suppress marginalized communities, and Rep. Watts is failing to take responsibility for his words and shifting blame to the very community his words are hurting. Further, his use of the phrase “a gay” is homophobic and dehumanizing. We ask him to apologize for his actions.
Don’t hold your breath. We’re talking about a guy who thought it was funny when a man at the Adel legislative forum told a pro-choice woman, “your mother should have taught you how to keep your legs closed.”
Watts also tuned out during the Iowa House floor debate on a bill to strip some 180,000 public workers of their collective bargaining rights. Respect for others is not his strong suit.
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House GOP needs to do some mentoring (and monitoring)
This doesn’t look good. It’s been a few years since he was chair of an appropriations subcommittee, and he hasn’t had anything else since then so he hasn’t taken the hint. He used to pass out fringe-ish literature on the House floor. A couple of years ago that article ran about his Agenda 21 bill, which is straight off the Bircher website, and I believe the newspaper article actually referenced tinfoil hats. Maybe it’s time for a talk about diversity in the modern age. And if that doesn’t go over well, maybe someone will look at the mess and primary him.
Ralph used to be our rep when our boys were younger and in Cub Scouts. My co-Den Leader was in the same LDS Ward as Ralph, and I found her religion often limited her willingness to be open-minded on LGBT issues. She stopped speaking to me when my teen sons came out. I suspect that’s influencing Ralph on these issues, too.
Highfill could use some mentoring too, with his “blacklist”. Sometimes you wonder if there’s any grooming going on in that caucus. Of course, I’m not saying there’s necessarily much talent to groom in every case, but they could at least minimize the damage. Do they even realize he’s been deleting/blocking people on Twitter just because they disagree with him, or even ask him a question? They need to teach better social media skills, and people skills. They’re too busy pushing bad legislation to manage their caucus, however. Both will be bad for them.
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